Doctors told us to abort our little girl as she wouldn’t survive birth

Daily Mail
17.07.2011
By Daily Mail Reporter

Doctors told us to abort our little girl as she wouldn’t survive birth - but our little fighter has flourished

Before she was even born, doctors said there was little chance Charley-Marie Skinner’s would survive her birth.

Scans showed a massive tumour covering the entire left chamber of her heart that was restricting blood flow.

Specialists were convinced she would die in the womb and advised her parents Heather and Andy, from Darwen, Lancashire, to terminate their baby.

They refused, saying they would rather let her die naturally than go through the trauma of an abortion.

The couple were told to start making funeral arrangements and even bought a moulding kit to make prints of their baby’s hands and feet as a reminder of their child.

They were forced to break the tragic news to their five other children that they would not be welcoming a new baby sister.

The couple already knew they were having a girl after full-time mother Heather, 27, went for a 20 week scan at Burnley General Hospital - but the tumour was  missed.

It was spotted just over a week later when she went for another scan to check the growth of the baby because some of Heather’s older children had been born abnormally small.

Heather and Andy were transferred immediately to St Mary’s Hospital, Manchester, to see a specialist.

Heather said: ‘When the doctor said there was nothing they could do and that I needed a termination, I just said: ‘no way.’

‘I didn’t want an abortion. I wanted nature to take it’s course. The thought of losing my baby was awful. I didn’t know how to deal with it.

But against the odds, Charley-Marie, now 19 months old, astounded medics and clung on to life.

She was born in January 2010 three weeks premature by Caesarean section at Blackburn Royal Hospital.

Heather said: ‘All I wanted was to see her eyes. The doctors still said that she would die as the tumour was so big it would stop the blood flow around her heart.

‘But she cried, she was breathing and doing everything that a newborn does.

‘Straight away they took her down to the neonatal intensive care unit and scanned her heart. The tumour was inside the entire left chamber but somehow her little heart was still finding a way to pump blood around.’

The first 48 hours were were critical and her parents were left not knowing if their daughter would make it.

However, scans showed that Charley-Marie’s heart had actually grown to make room for the tumour.

Three days after she was born, the couple were allowed to take her home.

Council worker Andy, 51, said: ‘We came home and just in the car on the drive way. We didn’t know what to do next.

‘We were numb. We hadn’t bought anything for her - just the clothes and blanket to bury her in.’

The baby was diagnosed with the rare, life threatening condition Tuberous Sclerosis, which causes benign tumours to grow on vital organs, when she was five-months-old.

There is no cure and the couple were told an operation wouldn’t help.

Heather said: ‘We were told it was the largest tumour they had ever seen at the hospital.’

As Tuberous Sclerosis is a genetic condition, the family asked to be tested for it.

It revealed that Andy and the couple’s daughter Emma-Jean also have the condition.

Scans showed three-year-old Emma-Jean has a tumour behind her left eye and two smaller ones in her heart. Their son Alfie, two, does not have the condition.

Andy has had several benign tumours during his life but it was never known why until Charley-Marie’s diagnosis.

When Charley-Marie reached her first milestone, the family celebrated with a party and fireworks.

Heather said: ‘She’s our little miracle. She’s proved everyone wrong and shown she’s a fighter.

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